There was a time when I believed, as the English saying goes, that life happens to me. I saw myself as a victim of circumstances, swept along by forces beyond my control. Every challenge, every heartbreak, every disappointment felt like something unfairly thrust upon me, something I had to endure. But one day, I realized the truth: life wasn’t happening to me—it was happening FOR me.
Every hardship I faced wasn’t there to break me; it was there to teach me. Every loss wasn’t meant to diminish me; it was meant to create space for something new. Life was shaping me, molding me, preparing me for the version of myself I was meant to become. The struggles weren’t obstacles; they were stepping stones. When I shifted my perspective, everything changed. I began to see lessons in the pain, growth in the challenges, and purpose in the chaos.
Instead of asking, “Why is this happening to me?” I started asking, “What is this teaching me?”
Instead of feeling powerless, I realized I had a choice: to rise, to learn, to move forward. Life is a gift, even when it doesn’t come wrapped in the paper we expected. It’s an intricate dance of highs and lows, of detours and straight paths. But none of it is random. Every twist, every turn, every stumble serves a purpose.
So now, I don’t see life as something I need to endure. I see it as something that’s working for me—even when it feels hard, even when I don’t fully understand it in the moment. Because I trust that everything happening is guiding me toward something greater. Life doesn’t happen to us. It happens for us. And when we embrace that truth, we stop being spectators and become creators of our own story.
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