The desire to change another person is nothing more than a projection of our own expectations. We believe that if we can just convince someone to change, everything will be perfect. However, attempts to control others almost always meet with resistance—people do not want to be changed by force. Instead of fulfillment and harmony, tension and frustration arise in the relationship, and in extreme cases—drama.

It is worth asking yourself a fundamental question: Do I truly love this person for who they are, or do I only love the story I have created? If love is based on the hope that someone will change, is it really love, or just an illusion of control? In what areas of life do you expect this person to conform to your vision? Do you really want your happiness to depend on whether someone meets your expectations?

True acceptance means seeing the other person as they are—with all their flaws and imperfections. Only then can we talk about an authentic relationship based on understanding, rather than false hopes. If we keep expecting someone to change, perhaps it’s time to look within and ask ourselves whether we are avoiding confronting our own fears and shortcomings.

Illusion may be tempting, but it leads to drama—only acceptance offers a chance for true fulfillment.

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